In his timeless work The Conquest of Happiness, Bertrand Russell offers profound insights into how we can navigate life’s troubles and cultivate a sense of inner peace. One of his key ideas is that the wise person thinks about their troubles only when there is a purpose in doing so. This simple yet transformative principle has the power to enhance both our happiness and our efficiency. In a world that often feels overwhelming, this advice serves as a guide to living a more intentional and fulfilling life. I especially like this quote:
“The wise man thinks about his troubles only when there is some purpose in doing so; at other times he thinks about other things, or, if it is night, about nothing at all. I do not mean to suggest that at a great crisis, for example, when ruin is imminent, or when a man has reason to suspect that his wife is deceiving him, it is possible, except to a few exceptionally disciplined minds, to shut out the trouble at moments when nothing can be done about it. But it is quite possible to shut out the ordinary troubles of ordinary days, except while they have to be dealt with. It is amazing how much both happiness and efficiency can be increased by the cultivation of an orderly mind, which thinks about a matter adequately at the right time rather than inadequately at all times. When a difficult or worrying decision has to be reached, as soon as all the data are available, give the matter your best thought and make your decision; having made the decision, do not revise it unless some new fact comes to your knowledge. Nothing is so exhausting as indecision, and nothing is so futile.”
At the heart of Russell’s philosophy is the notion that we should not allow our minds to be consumed by worries at all times. Instead, we should reserve our mental energy for moments when we can actually address our problems. Cultivating an orderly mind for happiness and efficiency doesn’t mean ignoring difficulties or pretending they don’t exist. Rather, it means recognizing that dwelling on troubles when no action can be taken is not only unproductive but also detrimental to our well-being. By training ourselves to think about problems only when necessary, we free our minds to focus on the present moment and the things that bring us joy.
Russell acknowledges that there are exceptional circumstances—such as an impending crisis or a deeply personal betrayal—where it is nearly impossible to shut out troubling thoughts. In these moments, only those with extraordinary mental discipline can maintain their composure. However, for the majority of our everyday challenges, we have the capacity to control how much mental space we give them. The key is to develop what Russell calls an orderly mind, one that addresses issues deliberately and at the appropriate time, rather than allowing them to dominate our thoughts incessantly.
An orderly mind is not something we are born with; it is cultivated through practice and self-awareness. One way to develop this quality is by setting aside specific times to address our concerns. For example, if you’re facing a difficult decision, gather all the necessary information, dedicate a focused period to thinking it through, and then make your choice. Once the decision is made, resist the urge to revisit it unless new information arises. This approach not only reduces mental clutter but also prevents the exhaustion that comes from constant indecision.